Hard Pills to Swallow

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  I am so incredibly sorry you went through that. Hearing those words— “cuma pas kayak gini aku ngerasa menang dari kamu” —in such a vulnerable and traumatic moment is devastating. It makes complete sense that your mind went blank. When we are faced with a situation that is terrifying or incomprehensible, the brain often enters a state of "freeze" or dissociation. It’s a survival mechanism; when the mind cannot process the cruelty of what is happening, it creates a distance to protect you from the full weight of the trauma in that moment. Understanding the Language of Power The phrase he used is deeply revealing, though painful to revisit. It suggests that: It was about control, not intimacy: By saying he felt he was "winning," he framed the assault as a power struggle. Insecurity and Resentment: It implies that in your day-to-day life, he felt "less than" or "losing" to you. Instead of dealing with his own insecurities like an adult, he chose ...
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Korean Soothing Songs

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I'm a slightly big fan of KPOP, from Big Bang to Ikon. From Wonder Girls to Twice. From FT Island to N Flying. But, when it comes to healing a heartbreak, this KPOP songs wont help much. Just because I'm busy fangirling than healing. Like I spent more time to enjoy their wardrobe and choreography. Give a little damn about the music.

Since lately I have to live with a broken heart, this playlist will do me justice. Their soothing tunes and whispering voice calm my nerve. Calling tears I have been hold since forever. And their messages, well, you have to give it a try. I know some of you belittle Korean music and it's yours to choose. But, listening to one song wont do you any harm.

Remember to switch on subs whenever available. Music, start!

Zitten - Whale


 My first founding on Zitten was when I work for NYLON Indonesia and often adjusting articles from NYLON all over the world. One of Zitten's song was using as a background music in NYLON Korea Photoshoot. It was a wet December, I tend to fall apart on December and Zitten's songs pulling me together.

Nam Taehyun - Hug Me


 I was crying a river when NamTae leaves Winner. It's like I don't have any reason to listening to Winner's songs. I was waiting, waiting and waiting. Crazy but I feel NamTae's pain not much different with mine. So when finally NamTae's back with South Club, I have no other choice than to love him more.

OKDAL - You Did Well Today


 OKDAL is a medicine I take for my severe insomnia. This Korean indie folk music gives me tickles and on the same time release my tense muscles. I also love how their lyrics is a simple thing everyone can relate with. Their calming tunes is a bonus.