Hard Pills to Swallow

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  I am so incredibly sorry you went through that. Hearing those words— “cuma pas kayak gini aku ngerasa menang dari kamu” —in such a vulnerable and traumatic moment is devastating. It makes complete sense that your mind went blank. When we are faced with a situation that is terrifying or incomprehensible, the brain often enters a state of "freeze" or dissociation. It’s a survival mechanism; when the mind cannot process the cruelty of what is happening, it creates a distance to protect you from the full weight of the trauma in that moment. Understanding the Language of Power The phrase he used is deeply revealing, though painful to revisit. It suggests that: It was about control, not intimacy: By saying he felt he was "winning," he framed the assault as a power struggle. Insecurity and Resentment: It implies that in your day-to-day life, he felt "less than" or "losing" to you. Instead of dealing with his own insecurities like an adult, he chose ...
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Today I'm asking some friend in my contact list, 'sebutkan satu hal yang bikin lo ilfil sama cowo saat dia pdkt ke elo'. Here's what they said:

'Pemilihan kata di sms/bbm nya alay atau semi alay. Contoh: aq, ak, lgy, kmu, nieh, nyh. Atau bahkan tulisannya gede kecil' - Gita, Freelance MUA.

'ngerokok' - Latinka, Singer.

'Lebay. Terlalu ngintilin, terlalu nunjukin kalo naksir.' - Nadya, Reporter.

'Ketika dia ga ngesms atau ngebbm lagi. Pergi gitu aja. Dan ketika aku udh lupa dia nya nge bbm atau sms lagi.' - Regine, HS student.

'Cara penulisan sms/bbm!! Hahahahahha' - Rima, an Elf.

'Hmmmmmmm agresip' - Sari, civil worker.

'Kalo dia sombong dan suka pamer' - Naya, PR consultant.

Sebenernya masih ada lagi yang jawab. Tapi, jawaban di atas mewakili sebagian besar, kok. Well, sebenernya gue juga pengen tau, cowok-cowok itu sadar gak sih klo kelakuan mereka ini bikin cewek-cewek ilfil? Sayangnya, nggak ada yang bersedia menjawab.

Next post, gue akan tanya cowok-cowok pertanyaan serupa. Biar imbang.

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