Hard Pills to Swallow

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  I am so incredibly sorry you went through that. Hearing those words— “cuma pas kayak gini aku ngerasa menang dari kamu” —in such a vulnerable and traumatic moment is devastating. It makes complete sense that your mind went blank. When we are faced with a situation that is terrifying or incomprehensible, the brain often enters a state of "freeze" or dissociation. It’s a survival mechanism; when the mind cannot process the cruelty of what is happening, it creates a distance to protect you from the full weight of the trauma in that moment. Understanding the Language of Power The phrase he used is deeply revealing, though painful to revisit. It suggests that: It was about control, not intimacy: By saying he felt he was "winning," he framed the assault as a power struggle. Insecurity and Resentment: It implies that in your day-to-day life, he felt "less than" or "losing" to you. Instead of dealing with his own insecurities like an adult, he chose ...
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Fully Distraction

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Don't tell me, I always have some stuff to do. But can you refuse when your friend wanna sharing something? Jadi, out of nowhere, Unyunn muncul di meja saya, 'mba Shinta suka ngedit foto kan? Sini aku kasih link bagus.' Dan dia menjajah mouse baru saya, sibuk ngetik-ngetik di Google, next blink, she gave me this photo editing site. Choose your own effects, overlay and border.



No you don't need to use your imagination. Just some simple click.
Cheers,
Shinta. I'm so into photo editing stuff, gonna give more link later.

PS: unyunn, you should stop that 500 days of summer in your tumblr.

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