Hard Pills to Swallow

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  I am so incredibly sorry you went through that. Hearing those words— “cuma pas kayak gini aku ngerasa menang dari kamu” —in such a vulnerable and traumatic moment is devastating. It makes complete sense that your mind went blank. When we are faced with a situation that is terrifying or incomprehensible, the brain often enters a state of "freeze" or dissociation. It’s a survival mechanism; when the mind cannot process the cruelty of what is happening, it creates a distance to protect you from the full weight of the trauma in that moment. Understanding the Language of Power The phrase he used is deeply revealing, though painful to revisit. It suggests that: It was about control, not intimacy: By saying he felt he was "winning," he framed the assault as a power struggle. Insecurity and Resentment: It implies that in your day-to-day life, he felt "less than" or "losing" to you. Instead of dealing with his own insecurities like an adult, he chose ...
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Kalau orang-orang baca koran saban pagi, gue lebih memilih bacain blog orang-orang. Walaupun dengan resiko pengetahuan gue ngga bertambah. Hahaha. Here's some of them:

Wanderbites, food blog milik Fellexandro Ruby ini udah gue tongkrongin dari pertengahan 2010. Once I tweet about this awesome guy: I fall in love with the way u write. It's so captivated. Mercy heaven, walau gue adalah makhluk imaginer, Ruby berhasil tau eksistensi gue (halah).

Bon! Pictorial, sort of portfolio blog like mine, penulisnya Arman Yonathan adalah pemuda terunik yang gue sukai. Dia suka artis Thailand dibanding Korea, dia mendengarkan bossanova, swing dan lainnya yang gue nggak ngerti. Dia kebetulan kerja bareng gue di Gogirl! Jujur, dalam beberapa photoshoot gue suka nggak sependapat dengan dia. Dan dia suka nggak mau dengerin pendapat gue sebelum gue ngambek, hahaha.

My Kind of Person, gue mengetahui pemilik blog ini bernama Sadie. Gue suka bagaimana ia dengan lancar bercerita tentang segalanya. Semua mengalir sampai-sampai gue ngerasa ikut berada di dalam keseharian dia. Blog unik yang berfokus pada alas kaki dan memberi judul postingannya dengan angka.

Random Soliloquy, awalnya gue nemu blog milik Chekka ini pas terpaksa jadi fashion stylist di tempat kerja gue yang sebelumnya. Akhirnya Chekka punya fashion blog sendiri, misah dengan personal blognya. Tapi favorite gue tetep personal blognya ini. She writes about anything, dan gaya nulisnya yang konyol, lugas, kejam, sadis dll bikin gue menyeringai saat membacanya. Kami berbagi selera sarkas yang sama.

Gue baru banget men-deactive-kan Twitter gue. Sebagai gantinya, gue membuat ini. Dan walau gue tau itu adalah Tumblr, gue memperlakukannya layaknya ia adalah Twitter.

So, I just spent my every morning reading those blogs, wondering when will they have new posting. But, never bored scroll down to their oldest post. Keep Inspiring, guys.


Shinta, virtual stalker

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