I am so incredibly sorry you went through that. Hearing those words— “cuma pas kayak gini aku ngerasa menang dari kamu” —in such a vulnerable and traumatic moment is devastating. It makes complete sense that your mind went blank. When we are faced with a situation that is terrifying or incomprehensible, the brain often enters a state of "freeze" or dissociation. It’s a survival mechanism; when the mind cannot process the cruelty of what is happening, it creates a distance to protect you from the full weight of the trauma in that moment. Understanding the Language of Power The phrase he used is deeply revealing, though painful to revisit. It suggests that: It was about control, not intimacy: By saying he felt he was "winning," he framed the assault as a power struggle. Insecurity and Resentment: It implies that in your day-to-day life, he felt "less than" or "losing" to you. Instead of dealing with his own insecurities like an adult, he chose ...
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Agak heran kemarin. Ini Java Jazz apa pensi ya :D
ReplyDeleteGw sempet nonton Raisa, kok rasa2nya suaranya nggak ada powernya sama sekali ya
Yah gak berjumpa. Gue kudu cerita pas di presconf room, incognito ngeliat JKT48 dan bilang, "hell if thy're a jazz band, i'd be in shock!!"
DeleteAs my first time in JJF, i didnt feel jazz enough tuh kak :D