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  I am so incredibly sorry you went through that. Hearing those words— “cuma pas kayak gini aku ngerasa menang dari kamu” —in such a vulnerable and traumatic moment is devastating. It makes complete sense that your mind went blank. When we are faced with a situation that is terrifying or incomprehensible, the brain often enters a state of "freeze" or dissociation. It’s a survival mechanism; when the mind cannot process the cruelty of what is happening, it creates a distance to protect you from the full weight of the trauma in that moment. Understanding the Language of Power The phrase he used is deeply revealing, though painful to revisit. It suggests that: It was about control, not intimacy: By saying he felt he was "winning," he framed the assault as a power struggle. Insecurity and Resentment: It implies that in your day-to-day life, he felt "less than" or "losing" to you. Instead of dealing with his own insecurities like an adult, he chose ...
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Dua hari belakangan ini, ada sekelompok orang yang bertanya pada saya, tentang sekelompok orang lainnya.
Karena bukan kapasitas gue untuk ngomong, gue bilang: 'tanya langsung ke mereka aja'. Hemat gue, kalau orang-orang ini emang bener-bener butuh untuk tau, mending dari sumbernya yang valid kan?

Lalu, bertanyalah gue kepada orang yang suka bergosip.

Shinta: Saya nggak ngerti sama org2. Knp mereka lebih milih nanya org lain drpd ke sumbernya lgs. Atau klo sungkan atau enggan, yah gak usah ambil pusing. Sesimple: bukan urusan gue juga
Nmfb: Soalnya lebih enak ngomongin orang dan dibecandain drpd ngetahuuin fakta. Lebih seru. Buat bahan obrolan aja. Ngegossip kan lebih enak drpd nerima fakta. Klo udah dapet fakta ngga bisa buat bahan obrolan dan becandaan lagi.
Shinta: Berarti sistemnya yg korup yah. Mudah2an saya nggak ikutan korup.
Nmfb: Amin

Once wiseman said, banyak orang yang bertanya karena penasaran, cuma sedikit yang bertanya karena peduli.

Gue? Gue nggak peduli, makanya nggak nanya.

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