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  I am so incredibly sorry you went through that. Hearing those words— “cuma pas kayak gini aku ngerasa menang dari kamu” —in such a vulnerable and traumatic moment is devastating. It makes complete sense that your mind went blank. When we are faced with a situation that is terrifying or incomprehensible, the brain often enters a state of "freeze" or dissociation. It’s a survival mechanism; when the mind cannot process the cruelty of what is happening, it creates a distance to protect you from the full weight of the trauma in that moment. Understanding the Language of Power The phrase he used is deeply revealing, though painful to revisit. It suggests that: It was about control, not intimacy: By saying he felt he was "winning," he framed the assault as a power struggle. Insecurity and Resentment: It implies that in your day-to-day life, he felt "less than" or "losing" to you. Instead of dealing with his own insecurities like an adult, he chose ...
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Talk the Talk, Walk the Walk

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'Saya nggak biasa dan nggak mau terbiasa kerja di luar jam kerja.'

Kalimat di atas emang biasa aja dan masuk akal. Jujur gue sedikit kesindir sih. Mungkin maksudnya emang nyindir gue? Hehehe.

Soalnya gue emang seneng banget tenggelam di tumpukan kerjaan. Kadang, pas lagi dalam perjalanan menuju manapun, trus ngeliat billboard atau curi denger percakapan orang, gue seakan dapet inspirasi buat artikel edisi depan.

Atau, pas lagi tidur, trus dapet ilham lewat mimpi, gue kebangun dan nulis itu. Jadi, iya. Gue nggak membatasi waktu kerja gue. Karena kalau nggak dicatet, ide-ide tadi bisa ilang begitu aja.

Sebenernya, nggak ada masalah. Gue mau kerja kapan juga. Tapi, ternyata banyak juga orang yang nggak suka ngomongin kerjaan di luar jam kerja. My bad. Lagian, maksud gue kan cuma ngasih info. Ngerjainnya yah nanti pas jam kerja.

Gimana yah, gue seneng sih sama jobdesk gue, jadi gue nggak ngerasa terbebani melakukannya kapan pun gue mau. Sure there is a slight different between doing something you love (which is something that involves a passion of yours) and loving what you do - even if it doesn't involve something you are passionate about.

Be passionate,
Shinta. (Oh, saya pun benci work overtime tanpa bayaran. Hehe)

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