SCREAM

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"Kenapa tidak berteriak?"   Pertanyaan yang selalu muncul ke permukaan dalam diskursus kekerasan seksual. Ada tuntutan tersirat tentang konsep the perfect victim,  bahwa korban yang "sah" haruslah sesosok manusia suci tanpa cela yang melawan sekuat tenaga. Jika kamu membeku karena shock dan tidak berteriak, maka di mata mereka, kamu bukan korban. "Kenapa mau ikut pergi sama terlapor?"   Pertanyaan berikutnya. Mengesankan bahwa jika korban setuju untuk bertemu atau bepergian, maka ia juga otomatis menyetujui tindakan kekerasan seksual yang terjadi. Logika usang ini menganggap kekerasan seksual tidak akan terjadi jika korban bisa menjaga diri dengan baik: tidak dekat dengan pelaku, tidak tinggal bersama pelaku, dan selalu waspada. Lagi-lagi, tuntutan menjadi a perfect victim . "Kalau sudah tahu dia begitu, kenapa tidak ditinggalkan? Kenapa masih mau berhubungan?" Bahkan aparat penegak hukum pun sering kali sulit menerima kenyataan ini. Mereka gagal...
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A Powerful Man Who is Hard to Resist

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Another distraction. But hey, I'll finish all my articles before their deadline.

You are The Devil

Materiality. Material Force. Material temptation; sometimes obsession
The Devil is often a great card for business success; hard work and ambition.
Perhaps the most misunderstood of all the major arcana, the Devil is not really "Satan" at all, but Pan the half-goat nature god and/or Dionysius. These are gods of pleasure and abandon, of wild behavior and unbridled desires. This is a card about ambitions; it is also synonymous with temptation and addiction. On the flip side, however, the card can be a warning to someone who is too restrained, someone who never allows themselves to get passionate or messy or wild - or ambitious. This, too, is a form of enslavement. As a person, the Devil can stand for a man of money or erotic power, aggressive, controlling, or just persuasive. This is not to say a bad man, but certainly a powerful man who is hard to resist. The important thing is to remember that any chain is freely worn. In most cases, you are enslaved only because you allow it.
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