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  I am so incredibly sorry you went through that. Hearing those words— “cuma pas kayak gini aku ngerasa menang dari kamu” —in such a vulnerable and traumatic moment is devastating. It makes complete sense that your mind went blank. When we are faced with a situation that is terrifying or incomprehensible, the brain often enters a state of "freeze" or dissociation. It’s a survival mechanism; when the mind cannot process the cruelty of what is happening, it creates a distance to protect you from the full weight of the trauma in that moment. Understanding the Language of Power The phrase he used is deeply revealing, though painful to revisit. It suggests that: It was about control, not intimacy: By saying he felt he was "winning," he framed the assault as a power struggle. Insecurity and Resentment: It implies that in your day-to-day life, he felt "less than" or "losing" to you. Instead of dealing with his own insecurities like an adult, he chose ...
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Maaf kalau 2PM things ini memenuhi front stage saya. Gimana pun, yang namanya fans pasti gak mau ketinggalan segala sesuatu tentang idolanya kan? Termasuk bikin karya tentang idola mereka. Kebetulan gue seorang juru berita, maka bikinin berita tentang 2PM jadi kebanggaan buat gue. Jujur sih, gue nggak mau mereka tambah terkenal, karena itu berarti gue nambah saingan abg-abg berbadan sehat. Tapiiii, seneng juga kalau idola gue diakui orang-orang sedunia.
Intinya nih, jangan ngomong jelek soal 2PM di depan gue kalau nggak mau gue tonjok. Seriusan loh, gue sempet ngancem seorang cowok yang terus-terus bilang 2PM gay, sort of, lah. Fuck. Kalau lo bisa ngedance sejago mereka, punya talent sehebat mereka, punya tampang se-cute mereka, dan punya kelakuan gentleman kayak Taec, baru lo boleh ngasih kritik. Ingat, kritik, bukan cercaan. Kalau lo gendut, gak bisa dance, gak bisa nyanyi, tampang juga cuma emak sama pacar lo yang bilang ganteng, gak usah deh ngomong bad things soal 2PM.
Waduh, jadi serius. Hahaha, terserah sih mau bilang apa aja soal siapa aja. Gue cuma ngasih tau, gak usah ngomong jelek soal 2PM di depan gue!
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