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  I am so incredibly sorry you went through that. Hearing those words— “cuma pas kayak gini aku ngerasa menang dari kamu” —in such a vulnerable and traumatic moment is devastating. It makes complete sense that your mind went blank. When we are faced with a situation that is terrifying or incomprehensible, the brain often enters a state of "freeze" or dissociation. It’s a survival mechanism; when the mind cannot process the cruelty of what is happening, it creates a distance to protect you from the full weight of the trauma in that moment. Understanding the Language of Power The phrase he used is deeply revealing, though painful to revisit. It suggests that: It was about control, not intimacy: By saying he felt he was "winning," he framed the assault as a power struggle. Insecurity and Resentment: It implies that in your day-to-day life, he felt "less than" or "losing" to you. Instead of dealing with his own insecurities like an adult, he chose ...
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My best friend pre wedding

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You know what, gue ngerasa satu hari akan terbuang percuma kalau gue nggak mempelajarai sesuatu yang baru. Jadi, pas diajak bantu-bantu buat pre wedding photoshoot, gue langsung mau. Seperti biasa, tugas gue adalah jadi stylist dan pengarah gaya dadakan. Dan karena gue suka banget bikin behind the scene photo/ video, gue nggak mau ketinggalan bikinin yang ini juga. Barengan Lockomotion gue menjelajahi Jakarta. Mulai dari Setiabudi, Taman Menteng, Stasiun Cikini, Sunda Kelapa, sampe nunggu malam di Bunderan HI. Pas sampe rumah, udah lewat waktu tidur gue. Jadi ngantuknya udah ilang. iseng-iseng, gue edit-edit foto aja deh. Here's some of them.


Fyi, kalau foto rame-rame bawa-bawa lighting dan kamera profesional, kita kudu ijin ke pos polisi yang di sebrang bunderan itu. Kalau untuk keperluan formal, kudu bawa surat ijin, misalnya dari kantor atau sekolahan. Kalau nggak formal, cukup lisan aja. Nggak pake disuruh bayar apa-apa kok. Tujuannya supaya pihak kepolisian tau kalau lagi ada kegiatan di sekitaran bunderan. Coba cari Pak Chandra atau Pak Sigit.

Enjoy,
Shinta. Only a dead man who stop learning.

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